It’s widespread for youths and adults to select at their pores and skin or play with their hair, however in some instances, it may well turn out to be a regarding behavior, inflicting misery or an infection.
As many as 1 in 20 folks choose at their pores and skin sufficient to be identified with excoriation dysfunction, in accordance with the Worldwide OCD Basis. And about 1 in 100 folks exhibits indicators of hair pulling, additionally known as trichotillomania, in accordance with the American Academy of Youngster and Adolescent Psychiatry.
Fortunately, there are therapies to assist youngsters — and adults — cut back these habits, often known as body-focused repetitive behaviors.
The UC Davis MIND Institute’s Breanna Winder-Patel is a licensed scientific psychologist. On this Q&A, she shares methods and steerage for people who find themselves involved about hair pulling or pores and skin selecting.

What’s pores and skin selecting?
Pores and skin selecting can embody any space of the physique, and it typically ends in some type of tissue harm. It normally happens on folks’s fingers, round their cuticles and their fingers. Generally youngsters would possibly discover one thing on their face that they don’t like and choose at that.
When must you be involved about pores and skin selecting?
Some folks choose a lot that it causes an an infection. I’ve labored with a affected person who ended up getting a very severe an infection and the selecting was virtually down the bone. If the selecting looks like it’s inflicting tissue harm, or the kid is saying it hurts, we need to embody the first care physician or pediatrician.
What’s hair pulling and when is it a priority?
That is a person pulling hair from any a part of their physique. The most typical locations are their head or their eyelashes. Mother and father ought to search therapy after they see giant bald spots on the kid’s head or if the entire eyelashes are lacking. Some folks really feel a variety of misery with the hair loss.

Do folks all the time know that they’re pulling their hair out?
Hair pulling might be automated or targeted. Computerized pulling can be somebody who’s watching TV and so they don’t understand they’re doing it. Centered can be these people who’re actually on the lookout for one explicit hair — perhaps one which feels extra coarse or curly. I as soon as noticed a affected person who had bald spots, and no person knew why. Then her mother moved her mattress and located enormous quantities of hair on the ground behind her mattress. She was doing automated pulling in that state between being awake and asleep and he or she wasn’t conscious she was doing it.
Why do folks pull their hair or choose their pores and skin?
Generally it’s associated to anxiousness however not all the time. It may be extra widespread in youngsters with attention-deficit/hyperactivity dysfunction (ADHD). Generally it’s a approach of soothing. Some folks say that they really feel a tingle the place the hair is that they need to pull out. Or they discover useless pores and skin alongside their cuticle, and so they actually really feel like they should do away with it.
What’s a trichobezoar?
A trichobezoar is undigested hair within the digestive tract. Some folks pull and eat their hair, and you’ll’t digest hair, so it will get caught. It may be a severe medical drawback. If you happen to discover a person pulling their hair and consuming it, I recommend a referral to a medical physician.
I as soon as noticed a affected person who had bald spots, and no person knew why. Then her mother moved her mattress and located enormous quantities of hair on the ground behind her mattress. She was doing automated pulling in that state between being awake and asleep and he or she wasn’t conscious she was doing it.” —Breanna Winder-Patel, licensed psychologist
When ought to a dad or mum search therapy for a kid’s hair pulling or pores and skin selecting?
A variety of youngsters fiddle with their hair or twist it or choose at their fingers and there’s no clear harm. That’s not normally a trigger for concern.
Younger kids might have massive patches of hair lacking and probably not really feel like that’s an issue. However mother and father normally really feel misery about it. Mother and father have nice instincts about their kids, and if they’re involved, they need to undoubtedly deliver it up with their medical professionals.
How are pores and skin selecting and hair pulling handled?
We begin by discovering out if there are high-risk occasions, as a result of that’s going to essentially assist us deal with it. Cognitive behavioral remedy, or CBT, helps folks perceive the ideas they’re having and the behaviors which can be sustaining the signs. One sort of CBT we use is behavior reversal coaching.
We regularly search for what we name competing responses. What else might the kid or particular person do with their fingers throughout these high-risk occasions that might compete with their means to drag their hair or choose their pores and skin?
What are some examples of competing response methods?
With youthful kids, if a high-risk time for pulling or selecting is watching TV, we’d have a basket of fidget toys by the sofa. We’d encourage the kid to select up a fidget earlier than they begin watching TV. Additionally, some folks like the sensation of pulling or selecting, so we attempt to replicate that with one thing that received’t harm them. An instance is placing a hair band on the wrist to select at as an alternative.

What different methods are there?
One other technique we use is stimulus management. This implies we’re doing one thing that blocks the conduct. We’ll have youngsters put on a hat throughout high-risk occasions. That approach after they put their hand as much as pull, it will get blocked. I as soon as labored with a woman who had excellent imaginative and prescient however had glasses with no prescription as a result of it blocked her means to select her eyelashes. Placing band aids on their thumbs and fingers is an alternative choice.
How can mother and father assist youngsters via this course of?
One aim is to essentially reinforce the methods. If you happen to catch your youngster selecting up a fidget earlier than watching TV, reward them or give them a reward for that. We need to keep impartial to the conduct and check out to not put a destructive give attention to it.
What assets do you advocate for folks?
The TLC Basis web site has a variety of details about body-focused repetitive behaviors, together with case examples and a piece the place you possibly can seek for therapists in your space.
The UC Davis MIND Institute in Sacramento, Calif. was based in 1998 as a singular interdisciplinary analysis middle the place households, group leaders, researchers, clinicians and volunteers work collectively towards a standard aim: researching causes, therapies and potential prevention of challenges related to neurodevelopmental disabilities. The institute has main analysis efforts in autism, fragile X syndrome, chromosome 22q11.2 deletion syndrome, attention-deficit/hyperactivity dysfunction (ADHD) and Down syndrome. Extra details about the institute and its Distinguished Lecturer Collection, together with earlier shows on this collection, is offered on the Internet at mindinstitute.ucdavis.edu.